Selma Blair is making her intentions known.
Though the Legally Blonde actress has found herself a boyfriend, she’s not sure if marriage is in the cards right now between raising 12-year-old son Arthur—who she shares with ex Jason Bleick—and her treatments for multiple sclerosis.
“Fitting anything in as a mother wanting to build a career and figure out when you’re going to get your blood treatments in, a boyfriend falls by the wayside really easily,” Selma told Us Weekly in an interview published July 17. “That’s why I would never want to get married. It’s a major setup to fail.”
Still, she couldn’t help but gush over her new man, who she says is “not in this business, although he has produced before.”
“I wanted a Midwest man,” she joked, “and I found a real Midwest man.”
So, how did the couple meet?
“I saw him from across a table and now he’s my boyfriend,” she explained, noting that she has opted to keep his identity to herself because “relationships are best kept out of press if possible.”